• What do you get out of running a BBS?

    From Nightfox@21:1/137 to All on Tue Apr 6 12:45:30 2021
    For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a BBS?

    I've always enjoyed it as a way to provide a service people like using. I like customizing my BBS and setting things up on it that people want to use. I have also created some BBS add-ons and little software tools that I've shared, which I enjoy. I also like the networked message groups that are available.

    At the same time, sometimes I get into a mood where I feel like there are other things that are more important to me, and my attention to my BBS drops a bit. I'm going through some things right now and I feel like my motivation to work on BBS stuff right now isn't what it once was, but I still like keeping my BBS running.

    Also, running a BBS is a fairly obscure hobby. It seems there aren't many people these days who know what an old-school BBS is, and they might not totally understand it if you try to explain it to them.

    Nightfox
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  • From Atreyu@21:1/176 to Nightfox on Tue Apr 6 16:09:41 2021
    On 06 Apr 21 12:45:30, Nightfox said the following to All:

    For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a BBS?

    Everyone else puts a gun to my head, so...

    Atreyu

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  • From Al@21:4/106.1 to Nightfox on Tue Apr 6 13:35:31 2021
    Re: What do you get out of running a BBS?
    By: Nightfox to All on Tue Apr 06 2021 12:45 pm

    For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a BBS?

    It's a hobby that I enjoy.

    At the same time, sometimes I get into a mood where I feel like there are other things that are more important to me, and my attention to my BBS drops a bit. I'm going through some things right now and I feel like my motivation to work on BBS stuff right now isn't what it once was, but I still like keeping my BBS running.

    There are things that are more important than the BBS so the BBS doesn't get all my time. It's a free time thing.

    Also, running a BBS is a fairly obscure hobby. It seems there aren't many people these days who know what an old-school BBS is, and they might not totally understand it if you try to explain it to them.

    Those guys don't know what they missed/are missing.. ;)

    Ttyl :-),
    Al

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  • From Warpslide@21:3/110 to Nightfox on Tue Apr 6 17:17:59 2021
    *** Quoting Nightfox from a message to All ***

    For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a
    BBS?

    I got back into BBSing in May of 2020 more as a distraction when covid first started. Being stuck "working" from home with a lot of the projects we were working on being put on hold while also shifting to a remote-work model was, well, fun...

    I've always enjoyed it as a way to provide a service people like
    using.

    When I ran the original Northern Realms back in the late 90s it was for the users: "Can you install this door game?", "Can you please carry this echo?", "Can I give you some money for more time?" (That last one actually did happen, but only once).

    I have had one regular local user since coming back to the scene, aside from other sysops popping by to have a look. Now-a-days I run it mostly for myself, though others are welcome to use it if they like.

    At the same time, sometimes I get into a mood where I feel like there
    are other things that are more important to me, and my attention to
    my BBS drops a bit. I'm going through some things right now and I
    feel like my motivation to work on BBS stuff right now isn't what it
    once was, but I still like keeping my BBS running.

    I'm kind of in the same boat right now. I started a new job last week so my time/energy/attention is more focused on that right now, though I do still make some time to pop by and read/reply to some messages. I'm not really customizing/modding/adding to the board at the moment.

    Also, running a BBS is a fairly obscure hobby. It seems there aren't
    many people these days who know what an old-school BBS is, and they
    might not totally understand it if you try to explain it to them.

    My old boss is the exact same age as I am and he had never heard of a BBS before. I gave him the 50 cent tour of my board once and he didn't really "get" it. My Mom used to log into my BBS back in the day to play LORD, when
    I told her I restarted my board, she didn't really remember anything about
    it.


    Jay

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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Warpslide on Tue Apr 6 15:53:55 2021
    Re: Re: What do you get out of running a BBS?
    By: Warpslide to Nightfox on Tue Apr 06 2021 05:17 pm

    My old boss is the exact same age as I am and he had never heard of a BBS before. I gave him the 50 cent tour of my board once and he didn't really "get" it.

    I was 14 years old (in 1994) when I started my first BBS. At the time, I was talking to a friend of mine about computer stuff and I said I had started running a BBS. He said he didn't know what a BBS was. I was a little surprised.

    My Mom used to log into my BBS back in the day to play LORD,
    when I told her I restarted my board, she didn't really remember anything about it.

    That's cool. My mom isn't big into computers but knows the basics of using a computer. My dad was always into computers though and is familiar with what a BBS is.

    Nightfox
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  • From Bucko@21:4/131 to Nightfox on Tue Apr 6 19:13:54 2021
    On 06 Apr 2021, Nightfox said the following...

    For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a BBS?

    Back in the 80's and 90's I ran a BBS because I enjoyed programming in Basic for the Image BBS for the C64, I spent more money and more time doing both. I loved it but then it became a job. When that happened and my old hardware was dying I got out.. In 2018 because I saw some groups on Facebook catering to BBS' I put one up again. Why? I did it for me! It was a way to kill time at night instead of sitting in front of that boob tube and watching my brain rot!

    Since that first Mystic board (The one I am posting on) I put a BBS on every platform that means something to me, Amiga, Linux, C128 and I and another programmer just released Image BBS v3.0 for the C64. Now I am programming for my fun, not anyone else's.. So that is what motivates me, I do it for me! If
    I get callers to call great, if not, I still can sleep at night knowing I am having some fun and also keeping my brain working before Alzheimers sets in!

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  • From Warpslide@21:3/110 to Nightfox on Tue Apr 6 21:36:19 2021
    *** Quoting Nightfox from a message to Warpslide ***

    My old boss is the exact same age as I am and he had never heard of
    a BBS before.

    I was 14 years old (in 1994) when I started my first BBS. At the
    time, I was talking to a friend of mine about computer stuff and I
    said I had started running a BBS. He said he didn't know what a BBS
    was. I was a little surprised.

    Sounds like we're the same age as well. I started my board when I was 15 or 16 though.

    That's cool. My mom isn't big into computers but knows the basics of using a computer. My dad was always into computers though and is
    familiar with what a BBSis.

    It's the opposite for me. My Mom has an iPhone, iPad & laptop today and has pretty much always enjoyed technology. Back when I lived at home I had networked my BBS PC w/ the family PC (a 10 meg coax connection) so we could play a game of Age of Empires against each other.

    To this day my Dad still doesn't have a computer, cell phone or even call display on his landline.


    Jay

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  • From acn@21:3/127.1 to Warpslide on Wed Apr 7 11:10:00 2021
    Am 06.04.21 schrieb Warpslide@21:3/110 in FSX_BBS:

    Hallo Warpslide,

    I was 14 years old (in 1994) when I started my first BBS.
    Sounds like we're the same age as well. I started my board when I was
    15 or 16 though.

    Interesting, as I also was 14 in 1994 and that was about the time I heard about BBSes as well :)
    Although I did not start my own BBS back in the days, I used to have a
    point system for FidoNet using CrossPoint on DOS and OS/2.

    I started my own BBS around December 2020, and I like being connected to different message networks and door games (via BBSlink).
    I also enjoyed creating the menu system and sticking together several
    modules of Synchronet to make it look a little bit individual :)

    But my main motivation was to create something that I like to use myself,
    I do play some BBSlink games regularly (LORD, Global War, Global
    Backgammon) and use my BBS as "boss" system for my OpenXP point.

    Regards,
    Anna

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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Nightfox on Wed Apr 7 10:36:00 2021
    Nightfox wrote to All <=-

    For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a BBS?

    It's the lavish pay. And, the chicks. And definitely the drugs.

    It's part technical challenges, part amusement at being able to do so much with crappy consumer hardware, part enjoyment of a user population that grew up with a different notion of online communities (or newer users for whom
    the old scene resonates) and part habit. I've logged on in the morning with
    my first cup of coffee pretty much every morning since 1991.






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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to poindexter FORTRAN on Wed Apr 7 12:48:22 2021
    Re: Re: What do you get out of running a BBS?
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Nightfox on Wed Apr 07 2021 10:36 am

    It's part technical challenges, part amusement at being able to do so much with crappy consumer hardware, part enjoyment of a user population that grew up with a different notion of online communities (or newer users for whom the old scene resonates) and part habit. I've logged on in the morning with my first cup of coffee pretty much every morning since 1991.

    I pretty much agree with all this. Though it hasn't been as much of a habit for me, I do like to check the networked message areas.

    Nightfox
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  • From Cozmo@21:3/135 to Nightfox on Wed Apr 7 18:52:37 2021
    For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a BBS?

    BBSes have alway facinated me. Always enjoyed logging in to different
    boards back in the day to see what they had to offer. What motivates me is
    the enjoyment I get out of setting up everything that has to with the BBS.and the fact that you don't have to use the web to get all your information. It's
    a fun hobby! Now we just need to get some users.

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  • From Morgul@21:1/207 to Nightfox on Wed Apr 7 21:26:30 2021
    BY: Nightfox(21:1/137)


    |11N|09> |10For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a BBS?|07
    |11N|09> |07
    I had just graduated from College and moved about 80 miles from home to start a career. I discovered BBSs, and fell in love with them - the conecpt of emailing and talking with people all over the country appealed to me. I started my BBS in 1992 and ran it for 10 years. I made a lot of great friends and had a lot of fun on there, and I learned how to program by modding my BBS.

    Over the years, I'd kept in touch with some SysOps that were still running their boards and were still improving it. One piece of software I'd written was still being used, and I'd given the source to someone to make some modifications to it. They kept me in the loop about what was going on, and I decided to give it a whirl and see if I could bring my board back online and run it. As I got into building it back, I went through my old BBS files, and the flood of memories was almost overwhelming. I'd forgotten just how much fun BBSing had been. I'd made a lot of friendships that have continued to this day.

    I know I'll never rekindle the popularity of BBSing in the 1990s. But I'm enjoying running the BBS, it's helping me get back into programming, and I'm enjoying making new friends.

    -Morgul

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  • From paulie420@21:2/150 to Nightfox on Thu Apr 8 06:34:27 2021
    For the BBS sysops out there, what motivates you to keep running a BBS?

    Also, running a BBS is a fairly obscure hobby. It seems there aren't
    many people these days who know what an old-school BBS is, and they
    might not totally understand it if you try to explain it to them.

    I love BBSes. I guess I could stop there. :P

    I created 2o as MY portal to the BBS world. It allows me to read the FTNs I care about, it allows me to play the door game networks I care about and it allows me to connect to the BBSes that I'm interested in.

    It gives me a platform to share different and new sections of historical textmode and other retro computing topics that.. I care about. :)

    And last, it allows me to learn a little bit of programming while I learn Mystic MPL, Python and some other languages.

    If no one called, I'd still have all of this in one place - the fact that callers are enjoying it too... is awesome.



    |07p|15AULIE|1142|07o
    |08.........

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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Morgul on Thu Apr 8 08:22:42 2021
    Re: Re: What do you get out of running a BBS?
    By: Morgul to Nightfox on Wed Apr 07 2021 09:26 pm

    back online and run it. As I got into building it back, I went through my old BBS files, and the flood of memories was almost overwhelming. I'd forgotten just how much fun BBSing had been. I'd made a lot of friendships that have continued to this day.

    I had made maybe a couple friends back in the day from BBSing, but no long-lasting friendships, unfortunately.

    Nightfox
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  • From Daniel Path@21:4/148 to Nightfox on Thu Apr 8 19:48:05 2021
    Hello Nightfox.

    08 Apr 21 08:22, you wrote to Morgul:

    @COLS: 80
    @BBSID: DIGDIST
    Re: Re: What do you get out of running a BBS?
    By: Morgul to Nightfox on Wed Apr 07 2021 09:26 pm

    back online and run it. As I got into building it back, I went
    through my old BBS files, and the flood of memories was almost
    overwhelming. I'd forgotten just how much fun BBSing had been.
    I'd made a lot of friendships that have continued to this day.

    I had made maybe a couple friends back in the day from BBSing, but no long-lasting friendships, unfortunately.

    i have a couple of ex-users and sysops whom we are still connected, altough they are not using the BBS any more.

    Daniel

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  • From Ron Lauzon@21:1/194 to Nightfox on Fri Apr 9 09:15:00 2021
    Nightfox wrote to Morgul <=-

    I had made maybe a couple friends back in the day from BBSing, but no long-lasting friendships, unfortunately.

    In my early days of BBSing, I was in college and all the BBSs were run by college students. But we were all in the same computer club, so we knew
    each other.

    When I really called them a lot, they were all in the same area. But
    there were few social events for BBS people. I remember one nice lady
    who threw a big BBS Picnic every year. She checked out an "island" in
    a local park.

    But some BBSers were still kids. Others were really old. ALL were geeks
    (and socially awkward). Interacting on BBSs was something that we were
    all comforable with - and kept other people at arm's length, which is what we were comfortable with.

    Later on, as we got more into Fidonet and the like, people were really geographically wide spread.

    It's hard to get close to geeks in the first place. It's even harder when
    many of them can't get together (too young, too old, too insecure, etc.).
    And it's pretty much impossible to make lasting friendships without that contact.


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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to Ron Lauzon on Fri Apr 9 08:24:46 2021
    Re: Re: What do you get out o
    By: Ron Lauzon to Nightfox on Fri Apr 09 2021 09:15 am

    It's hard to get close to geeks in the first place. It's even harder when many of them can't get together (too young, too old, too insecure, etc.). And it's pretty much impossible to make lasting friendships without that contact.

    I've always been an introvert and into computers & such. I don't have a large group of friends and sometimes feel a bit lonely. I went through a divorce last year, and being by myself again has felt weird.

    Nightfox
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  • From Vk3jed@21:1/109 to Ron Lauzon on Sat Apr 10 20:45:00 2021
    On 04-09-21 09:15, Ron Lauzon wrote to Nightfox <=-

    It's hard to get close to geeks in the first place. It's even harder
    when many of them can't get together (too young, too old, too insecure, etc.). And it's pretty much impossible to make lasting friendships
    without that contact.

    Depends on the geek, I'm a notoriously social geek, so I'm not hard to get together - just need a suitable social event. :)


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  • From Dr. What@21:1/194 to Vk3jed on Sat Apr 10 10:12:00 2021
    Vk3jed wrote to Ron Lauzon <=-

    Depends on the geek, I'm a notoriously social geek, so I'm not hard to
    get together - just need a suitable social event. :)

    I forced myself to get more social when I approached 40. I took up ballroom dancing - in for a penny, in for a pound, as the saying goes.

    While I enjoy being social more, I don't crave it like some type of people do.

    ... Lead me not into temptation, I can find my own way
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  • From Dr. What@21:1/194 to Nightfox on Sat Apr 10 10:13:00 2021
    Nightfox wrote to Ron Lauzon <=-

    I've always been an introvert and into computers & such. I don't have
    a large group of friends and sometimes feel a bit lonely. I went
    through a divorce last year, and being by myself again has felt weird.

    I hear you. I've been kind of a loner all my life. I guess that I just don't feel the loneliness anymore.

    But I understand about the divorce. I only got married about 7 years ago.
    But it would certainly feel weird to not have her underfood anymore.


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Ron Lauzon on Mon Apr 12 07:03:00 2021
    Ron Lauzon wrote to Nightfox <=-

    It's hard to get close to geeks in the first place. It's even harder
    when many of them can't get together (too young, too old, too insecure, etc.). And it's pretty much impossible to make lasting friendships
    without that contact.

    We had at least quarterly get-togethers on NIRVANnet(tm), a local BBS
    network where, for the most part, we were driving/transit distance to each other. We'd rotate locations so each BBS could "host" a location.

    The first social hurdle was identifying a group of strangers in a cafe, we'd bring something to make us stand out, like my linesman's handset, a copy of 2600, anything. We'd still see people lurking outside, and unfortunately, a few of them wouldn't come in.

    Once people dove in, they had a great time. For the socially timid, it was a place to interact with people they already knew and were similarly socially challenged.

    Online rivalries often cooled when people met face-to-face. I've told the story of two of my users who *hated* each other online and ended up getting drunk together at the exclusion of almost everyong else, trying to convince the other that he was right - but in a loud, friendly way for once.


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  • From poindexter FORTRAN@21:4/122 to Nightfox on Mon Apr 12 07:08:00 2021
    Nightfox wrote to Ron Lauzon <=-

    I've always been an introvert and into computers & such. I don't have
    a large group of friends and sometimes feel a bit lonely. I went
    through a divorce last year, and being by myself again has felt weird.

    Sorry to hear about the divorce, I can relate to the contrast. I separated
    in 2007, and remember being the last person at work, since I could. I
    reached out to some old friends, one of the issues with marriage is
    sometimes one partner's friends become the "marriage" friends - and when separating, they often feel they need to take sides.

    I'm coming up on my son's 18th birthday, and the end of 14 years of paying child support. He's going to college and we're paying for it, though, so
    it's a zero-sum equation. <shrug>

    Facebook taught us that we should have 150+ "friends", and they were wrong.
    1 or 2 good friends is perfect.


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  • From Nightfox@21:1/137 to poindexter FORTRAN on Mon Apr 12 08:26:37 2021
    Re: Re: What do you get out o
    By: poindexter FORTRAN to Nightfox on Mon Apr 12 2021 07:08 am

    Sorry to hear about the divorce, I can relate to the contrast. I separated in 2007, and remember being the last person at work, since I could. I reached out to some old friends, one of the issues with marriage is sometimes one partner's friends become the "marriage" friends - and when separating, they often feel they need to take sides.

    Yeah, that would be tough. We didn't have either of our friends who became the "marriage" friends, but I would imagine that would be hard.

    Facebook taught us that we should have 150+ "friends", and they were wrong. 1 or 2 good friends is perfect.

    I don't have many friends I talk to (or could talk to) on a regular basis, and often it seems like my friends and family are busy. Or maybe that's what I tell myself. I don't often reach out to people to talk a whole lot - sometimes I've wondered if I should have been reaching out to people more throughout my life. I feel especially alone when I'm going through a hard time.

    Nightfox
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  • From Morgul@21:1/207 to Poindexter Fortran on Mon Apr 12 11:32:28 2021
    BY: poindexter FORTRAN(21:4/122)


    |11pF|09> |10We had at least quarterly get-togethers on NIRVANnet(tm), a local BBS |07
    |11pF|09> |10network where, for the most part, we were driving/transit distance to|07
    |11pF|09> |10each |07
    |11pF|09> |10other. We'd rotate locations so each BBS could "host" a location.|07
    |11pF|09> |07
    In my area, we had a monthly meeting. We called it C.A.U.S.E. - Columbia Area Users and SysOps Exchange. We met every month on a Sunday at a local restaurant. It was pretty easy to find the group, and the restaurants were nice enough to let us put up a sign pointing in our direction. Over the years, the location moved to various parts of town, and were usually pretty well attended.
    It wasn't anything formal, just a casual get together to get to know each other and share stories.

    I miss those days.

    -Morgul

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  • From Dr. What@21:1/194 to poindexter FORTRAN on Tue Apr 13 07:43:00 2021
    poindexter FORTRAN wrote to Ron Lauzon <=-

    Once people dove in, they had a great time. For the socially timid, it
    was a place to interact with people they already knew and were
    similarly socially challenged.

    Yup. I've been to a few "geek fests" in my day and we really open up
    when surrounded by other geeks.

    Online rivalries often cooled when people met face-to-face. I've told
    the story of two of my users who *hated* each other online and ended up getting drunk together at the exclusion of almost everyong else, trying
    to convince the other that he was right - but in a loud, friendly way
    for once.

    One problem with BBSs is that queues like body language don't translate well. Also, being with someone in person, who can hit you, tends to dampen things down. 8)


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  • From Bucko@21:4/131 to Dr. What on Tue Apr 13 18:55:15 2021
    On 13 Apr 2021, Dr. What said the following...

    Online rivalries often cooled when people met face-to-face. I've told the story of two of my users who *hated* each other online and ended getting drunk together at the exclusion of almost everyong else, tryi to convince the other that he was right - but in a loud, friendly way for once.



    This is very true, I back in the day ran a sysOp group called ESA (Elite
    SysOp Association) in my area, we had another hacker group which I can't remember the name of off the top of my head, I constantly argued with the leader of that group, we were at each other's throats all the time! Then I
    went to a BBS get together at a local Nathans and I met the guy face to face, to be honest I was ready to take it outside as soon as he started his crap,
    but I said one thing that quelled it all, I said to him buy me a hot dog and lets sit down and hack this crap out! 2 hours later we were headed to a bar down the street without the kiddies who were at the BBS get together and we became really good friends! Ah that's my story.. lol

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  • From Avon@21:1/101 to poindexter FORTRAN on Wed Apr 14 12:28:06 2021
    On 12 Apr 2021 at 07:08a, poindexter FORTRAN pondered and said...

    Facebook taught us that we should have 150+ "friends", and they were wrong. 1 or 2 good friends is perfect.

    I totally agree with this.

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  • From Vk3jed@21:1/109 to Dr. What on Wed Apr 14 18:39:00 2021
    On 04-10-21 10:12, Dr. What wrote to Vk3jed <=-

    I forced myself to get more social when I approached 40. I took up ballroom dancing - in for a penny, in for a pound, as the saying goes.

    That's definitely a good way to become more social! :)

    While I enjoy being social more, I don't crave it like some type of
    people do.

    Yeah, I do seek out social engagements - coffee catchups, radio and sporting clubs, and other events. More quiet casual things (OK, the sport is also serious competition ;) ), rather than all out parties.

    ... Lead me not into temptation, I can find my own way

    True. ;)


    ... Married by a judge; should've asked for a jury. -Groucho
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  • From Blue White@21:4/134 to Avon on Wed Apr 14 10:58:56 2021
    Avon wrote to poindexter FORTRAN <=-

    On 12 Apr 2021 at 07:08a, poindexter FORTRAN pondered and said...

    Facebook taught us that we should have 150+ "friends", and they were wrong. 1 or 2 good friends is perfect.

    I totally agree with this.

    Yes indeed.


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